Trust God

The Secret
One day, one friend asked another,
‘ How is it that you are always so happy?
You have so much energy,
And you never seem to get down.. ‘

With her eyes smiling, she said,
‘ I know the Secret! ‘
‘ What secret is that? ‘
To which she replied,
I’ll tell you all about it,
But you have to promise to
Share the Secret with others. ‘

The Secret is this:
I have learned there is little I can do
In my life that will make me truly happy.
I must depend on God to make
Me happy and to meet my needs.
When a need arises in my life,
I have to trust God to supply
According to His riches.
I have learned most of the time
I don’t need half of what I think I do.
He has never let me down.
Since I learned that ‘Secret ‘, I am happy. ‘

The questioner’s first thought was,
‘ That’s too simple!’
But upon reflecting over her own life
She recalled how she thought a bigger house
Would make her happy, but it didn’t!
She thought a better paying job
Would make her happy, but it hadn’t.
When did she realize her greatest happiness?
Sitting on the floor with her grandchildren,
Playing games, eating pizza or reading a story,
A simple gift from God.

Now you know it too!
We can’t depend on people to make us happy.
Only God in His infinite wisdom can do that.
Trust Him!
And now I pass the Secret on to you!

You have to tell someone the Secret, too!
That God in His wisdom will take care of You!
But it’s not really a secret…
We just have to believe it and do it..
Really trust God!

~anonymous

God can go back into our lives and reverse anything we did wrong, or that wronged us

Posted with permission from Spiritdaily.com

Do you realize that God can go backwards in time and reverse the effects of anything we have done wrong, or that was wrongly done to us (if He so wills)? We have mentioned this before — how the Lord not only can allow us to rectify past mistakes as if they didn’t even exist (once we seek His forgiveness and expiate — purify) but can even revisit certain points in our lives and eliminate the cause of a disease or psychological harm that set in during particular periods.

The Lord is omnipotent. He is also timeless. He can appear at any time in any situation. He speaks to our supernatural existence, which is the root of our dignity. There is not a single miracle that you do not have the potential to tap into. There is never reason not to persevere. We have seen accounts right unto death of how trust and perseverance pay off — mountains moved, severe problems eradicated. Usually, they are smaller mountains — bumps in our lives — that we need help over.

Life on earth is a constant invisible transaction. Our victories often seem like “minor” victories, but they are no less miraculous. The money that came when you needed it? That lonely child of yours who suddenly has a buddy?

“Small” victories, but perhaps not really all that small.

We see such miracles every day and refer to them as answered prayers. It’s the way that the God of miracles coordinates our lives when we are in tune with Him and are selfless. I once received a Christmas card that listed the various ways of “dying to self.” It was eye-opening. It described dying to self as:

— When you are forgotten or neglected and you don’t hurt with the insult, but your heart is happy — that is dying to self

— When your advice is disregarded, your opinions ridiculed, and you refuse to let anger rise in your heart, and take it all in patient, loving silence — that is dying to self

— When you lovingly and patiently bear disorder, irregularity, tardiness, and annoyance… and endure it as Jesus endured it — that is dying to self

— When you never care to refer to yourself in conversation or record your own good works, or itch for praise after an accomplishment, when you can truly love to be unknown… that is dying to self

— When you can see your brother or sister prosper and can honestly rejoice with him, and feel no envy even though your needs are greater — that is dying to self

— When you are content with any food, any offering, any raiment, any climate, or any society — that is dying to self

— When you can take correction, when you can humbly submit inwardly as well as outwardly, with no rebellion or resentment rising up within your heart — that is dying to self.”

Slowly but surely, we must reorient our lives; it takes patience. Life on earth is a constant struggle to balance our moods, diligent in our work, steadfast in our prayer, and full of constant love, which is the true power of the universe and what will propel us upward. Nothing is tragic when it assists our march to Heaven. A safe life is a deep life lived for God. When we approach each day from the perspective of His mission instead of our own designs, we are on the way to opening doors we didn’t even know existed, doors behind which, as I have emphasized, are graces. During the famous Catholic apparition known as the “Miraculous Medal,” the Blessed Mother appeared with rings on her fingers, each set with gems that radiated streams of light. It was explained to the seer (a nun who was later canonized, St. Catherine Laboure) that the rays from the gems were the symbols of graces that came from Christ and that Mary, as His assistant, shed upon those who asked for them. “The gems from which rays do not fall,” she said, “are the graces for which souls forget to ask.”

We need to stop and think about what we may be missing! Those gems come when we are seeking His embrace and have taken the time to humbly ask for them. When we have resistance, we have to remember that there may be spiritual forces unique even to certain areas that can intermingle with our own vulnerable spirits. These need to be cleansed. — at the same time that we invoke angels.

Once received, such graces are enhanced every time we’re diligent, overcome a bad habit, confess a sin (making a real effort not to repeat it), or turn away from what tempts us. God blesses us to encourage us in goodness and withdraws blessings to indicate when we are in error. Graces are enhanced every time we turn the other cheek.

I have seen a number of cases where what seemed like a disaster caused by the evil of another was simply ignored and followed by graces that greatly exceeded what the evil took away.

[adapted from the book The God of Miracles]

Make this Lent Radical

Father Farfaglia, pastor of St. Helena of the True Cross of Jesus Catholic Church in Corpus Christi, Texas, shares a Lenton Preparation Message, “Getting Ready for Lent.”

Every car or truck carries in the glove compartment a maintenance schedule. Having your oil changed, your tires rotated and balanced, and the rest of the engine checked keeps your vehicle in excellent shape.

This Wednesday, we begin one of the most practical times of the Catholic liturgical year. Lent provides us an opportunity to open our personal maintenance schedule and take a close look at ourselves as we journey towards eternal life.

The spiritual life is not an easy endeavor because of our wounded human nature. True, Baptism washes away original sin, but we do not have complete control over ourselves. St. Paul brilliantly describes this continual battle. He portrays this conflict as an inward struggle (Romans 7: 14-25), a treasure in a vessel of clay (2 Corinthians 4: 7-18), and a thorn in the flesh (2 Corinthians 12: 7-10).

Because of original sin, an inner force will always move us in the wrong direction. Continual effort is necessary to control the inner movement of our ego, and allow the presence of grace to take control of our thoughts, desires and actions. The battle of the spiritual life is like walking in a river against the current. If we do not continue to walk or grab on to a rock, the current will carry us in the opposite direction. Lent provides us with an excellent opportunity to strengthen ourselves so that we can keep walking against the current.

A successful Lent requires us to develop a serious plan of action. Our program should consist of both the general practices that the Catholic Church requires of everyone, and our own particular Lenten program.

As a general practice for all Catholics, the Church requires that we fast on Ash Wednesday and Good Friday. We are also asked to abstain from meat on Ash Wednesday and all Fridays of Lent.

Aside from what the Church law of fast and abstinence requires of us, we should come up with a personal program for spiritual growth. This is our personal maintenance program. I have always recommended that we come up with something negative and something positive.

By something negative, I mean that each person should commit themselves to giving up something or a number of things. This sacrifice should be serious and demanding. The self-control that we exercise in giving up a legitimate pleasure strengthens our will and curbs the inclinations of our passions.

By something positive, I mean that each one should also do some kind of act that we would not normally do on a regular basis. Attending daily Mass, visiting the sick, volunteering time at the parish or praying a Sunday evening Rosary with the entire family are positive acts of virtue that have helped many people progress in their relationship with God.

Lenten practices of penance have great benefits for our spiritual lives. A serious Lent will be like a spring cleaning which will purify the clutter that has accumulated in our souls. A serious commitment to penance will also help us to conquer addictions, obsessions and compulsive behavior. A serious Lent will purify our soul and allow us to experience a deeper interior freedom.

As we approach the beginning of another Lent, we should carefully examine our lives. Usually we focus on carefully examining our sins, but do we ever consider the sins of omission? Do we honestly consider what we are not doing?

One way to break the cycle of apathy is to bring into your Lent an apostolic dimension. This can be done by making two firm commitments: pray the Rosary at your local abortion clinic and target one person that does not have a church home. Invite that person to your parish.

Moreover, it would be very powerful if we would offer up our fast, abstinence, Lenten sacrifices and our weekly Stations of the Cross to the Lord as of way of ending abortion and bringing souls back to the Church.

Do not wait until Ash Wednesday to come up with your Lenten program. Decide today what you are going to do. Parents should sit down with their children and make sure that they too have come up with a serious plan of action. Have a family meeting tonight and decide together to make this Lent the best Lent ever. Meet as a family every Sunday during Lent and review your program. Be accountable to each other. If you make this a great Lent you will notice the difference on Easter Sunday.

…more insights from Father Farfaglia can be found at http://donotbediscouraged.com/

Lent starts on Ash Wednesday, March 9, 2011. Easter Sunday is April 24, 2011. Let this be a Lent where we hear Jesus’ plea, “I want more of you.”

Confession: begin again

I walk out of Church after confession today feeling brand new. My sins are wiped clean. I turn over a new leaf, begin fresh, stop worrying about the misdeeds of the past and focus on the the moment I am in, more prepared for the challenges of the future.

It’s hard to believe more Catholics don’t take advantage of this opportunity to have our sins, shortcomings and bugaboos cleansed with the full backing of the Catholic Church and saints.

Here is a chance to take everything that’s weighing on our souls and offer it all up to God.

And reconciliation can be more than just recounting our sins, asking for forgiveness, and performing penance the priest assigns. It can be a time to seek counsel from the priest, to receive guidance from a holy man who understands the nature of the soul.

Some worry that the priest may judge them or that it may not look good that they keep returning to confess the same sins. But any good priest will tell you that it is normal for us to have the same sins reoccurring, and that the priest is not there to judge but to deliver the forgiveness of God and assign our penance. One priest told me that even the holiest of men sins seven times a day. We are all sinners, that is why we need Christ.

And for those who may be a little shy about confessing their deepest, darkest secrets to another, there is the option of sitting behind a screen to further enhance anonymity. Whether behind the screen or eye-to-eye with the priest, there is something freeing in the very act of venting our sins and troubles, airing them so that they are no longer trapped within us but set free, and then cleansed away with the power of a Sacrament.

We merely need a bit of courage to enter the confessional and an honest heart to confess our sins and free ourselves to experience the joy of Christianity.

And with Lent drawing near, there’s no better time to wipe the slate clean and start anew.

The Scapular ~ Garment of Grace

In 1251 Our Lady gave the Scapular promise to St. Simon Stock saying, “Whosoever dies wearing this Scapular shall not suffer eternal fire.” She continued: “Wear the Scapular devoutly and perseveringly. It is My garment. To be clothed in it means you are continually thinking of Me, and I in turn, am always thinking of you and helping you to secure eternal life.”

Wearing the Scapular indicates that you place yourself under the special protection of Mary. The church does not teach that wearing a scapular is some sure ticket to Heaven; rather, we must strive to be in a state of grace, implore our Lord’s forgiveness, and trust in the maternal aid of our Blessed Mother.

Devotion to Our Lady of Mount Carmel (the Madonna of the Scapular) began before the time of St. Simon Stock — even before the time of Jesus. In 8th century B.C., the great prophet Elias came down the holy mountain of Carmel in Palestine. Then he began a long tradition of contemplative life and prayer. He and his followers had mystically dedicated themselves to God’s Mother-to-come, Mary, Queen of Mount Carmel. Nearly three thousand years later, that tradition of prayer, contemplation, and devotion to Mary continues to live and be present in the Catholic Church.

Very Nice Scapulars, handmade by the Sisters here

Part II Our Lady of Mount Carmel

Create a sacred place in your home

One tradition within many Catholic families is a devotional shrine in the home. The main focal point should begin with a crucifix or a depiction of Christ. Pictures of saints and statues can also be placed in the shrine. The Bible may also be present as it is a place around which people may gather for a Bible reading or to offer prayer. Rosaries, Miraculous Medals, Holy Water, and Scapulars are also beautiful additions to increase devotion. Flowers can also be used to honor the joy or sorrow of the liturgy throughout the year. Candles also make the shrine area special, just be sure to never leave a lit candle unattended. Lighting and extinguishing a candle also help signal when evening prayer begins and ends.

Saint Valentine ~ Patron of Love, Young People, Happy Marriages

There is not much known about Saint Valentine. Many historians claim that he was a temple priest jailed for helping persecuted Christians during the reign of Claudius. Evidence that Valentine was a real person was excavated under a Roman catacomb and an ancient church dedicated to Saint Valentine was discovered. Alongside a woodcut portrait of him, where text states that Valentinus was a Roman priest martyred during the reign of Claudius the Goth (Claudius II). Since he was caught marrying Christian couples and aiding any Christians who were being persecuted under Emperor Claudius in Rome (this was considered a crime), Valentinus was arrested and imprisoned. Claudius took a liking to this prisoner until Valentinus made a fatal error: he tried to convert the Emperor and thus was condemned to death.

Legend has it, while awaiting his execution, Valentinus restored the sight of his jailer’s blind daughter. On the eve of his death, he penned a farewell note to the her, signing it, “From your Valentine.”

“Has it been that long?” by Paul Eddy

February, the month that Valentine’s Day appears, a time for all of us to tell that special lady or man what they mean to us. February for myself finds me preparing for another wedding anniversary that numerically started a longtime ago, yet seems like yesterday. God has brought love into this world to be shared and when one is in love doesn’t it seem time stands still? When someone loves another, time becomes a slow clock, until you look back and realize everything you have shared with that special person must come to an end someday. Love is like that, blindly leading us on, until one comes to the certainty that they are getting older and hopefully wiser. I believe God granted us love so that no matter where we give it the returns are tenfold and the time we have love seems endless.
So where am I going with these seemingly rambling statements? Spring is coming soon and with it a renewed sense of “the love of life.” Doesn’t it seem winter has been here forever yet spring and summer and autumn go by so fast? I am talking about loving yourself as much as loving another. February and Valentine’s Day are a reminder that love is all around us and there for the taking and giving. We cannot love another without knowing how to love and therefore we must love ourselves first. Not a selfish love but a love for who we are and what we can give this world. God gives us love so that we can give love to others. Love makes the time on this earth seem short and long at the same time.
Married as long as I have been to my wonderful wife (I really mean that) has given me ample opportunity to learn love in many ways. From doing small chores for her, to comforting her in the hard times, to just listening. I was not born to live in love, that I believe is a learned experience, I was born to love and then receive God’s love in return. Married or single we all have someone who wants our love and it is up to us to give it freely. When we are without love it is winter in our lives and when we give our love it is the eternal spring, summer, and autumn of our lives. Has it been that long? No not really when one takes account of all the great and loving times of one’s life. Happy Valentine’s Day, another reminder that God gave us love to receive and give away so that we may be closer to Him.

Little Vivian Loves the Holy Family

21 month old Vivian is developing a relationship with God already. With her mothers help, and the example of the other holy souls in her life, she is learning how to pray. Vivian reminds us how important to Our Lady family prayer is.